You're two bites into your mashed potatoes when it starts. “So, how’s work?” asks your aunt. Before you can answer, your uncle chimes in: “Still doing your tech job? You know, my neighbor’s son just ...

For far too long career development has followed a familiar pattern. Meet with an employee to review their performance.

Forbes contributors publish independent expert analyses and insights. Sho Dewan is a career expert who covers work, top jobs, and business. A professional having a strategic end-of-year conversation ...